Some people like Vasco da gama and Columbus went around the
world for a vocation and ended up discovering fortunes and new worlds. But many of us travel for a vacation where
we spend our hard earned money to relax, rejuvenate and return with rich memories.
Before we decide on our vacation jaunts many of us tend to
ask around for opinions, experiences and budgets. But often, we get jaundiced
by perceptions and prejudices and end up missing out on great vacation places. When
I decided to book my trip to Japan, I refrained from asking around for
opinions. And when I disclosed my travel plans, I was dissuaded citing Japan to
be very expensive location, a non-English speaking country to lack of vegetarian
food. But I didn’t pay heed to their unsolicited opinions.
After a two week trip
in Japan, here I stand on the podium as a self-proclaimed winner and loser. I won
against those naysayers by disproving their perceptions and I lost my heart to
the country, its people and culture. But before I make the naysayers jealous with my
travel experiences and pictures, I would like to share my approach to planning
and preparing for a trip.
Have a
reason to travel: There must be a fundamental reason why you would want to vacation
in a certain place. You should fuel that desire by trying to read up about the
place, its culture, history, lifestyle of people, their cuisine, geographical
and climatic conditions, etc. to qualify or disqualify the place.
This summer, Australia featured during my
conversation with another travel aficionado. But then when we did further
reading and research, we decided against traveling there despite English being
their native language and playing home to Kangaroos and exotic species in the Great
Barrier Reef. Why? Because I didn’t find their culture and history compelling enough
to spend my hard earned money and moreover, I was not looking for an opportunity
to fill my Face Book page with scenic images to show off my affluence or
happiness.
And when I looked up from Australia
I spotted this beautiful Island Nation, Japan that was often rattled by earth
quakes and nuclear disasters. But what intrigued
me was their faith and resilience. Soon I was mired in a million questions on
their culture and faith and wanted to explore the country and experience their
customs firsthand.
Do you
research: While many jump on package tours, I prefer doing my own research and
customizing an itinerary based on my interest. Packaged tours are like canned
food – very much unappetizing and unhealthy. One just needs to invest time to match
their interests and pick spots of interests before they set out to experience
and explore. Though travel guides often do a quick job of outlining culture, places
of interest, accommodation, food, transportation, etc., but doesn’t provide to
in depth view into culture. When I watched travel videos on Kyoto, a city of
thousand temples, I realized the similarities it bore to Kanchipuram and
Varanasi and I could guess why our Prime Minister tied up with Kyoto to develop
Varanasi. Only when you read and research you can understand the subtle
parallels and enjoy the place and culture even more. Otherwise it would be a
paralull!
Read
their newspapers: An expert traveler understands the social, political and
day-today issues before he/she travels into any country. The best way to begin
your journey is to start reading an English Daily, develop your own perspective
and go beyond guide books. By closely reading one of their dailies I discovered
that the famous Tsukiji Fish Market was closing down for good on November 14
and I was able to go there and get an experience despite being a vegetarian. The
digital age and social media has made this more easier; by simply following popular
newspapers and journalist one can get access to day-today happenings and
issues. This is how you can be a more knowledgeable, informed and sensitive traveler
distinguishing yourself other vagabonds.
Go beyond guide books: Guide books are written
for pedestrian travelers and may never be able to meet individual interests and needs. If you want to see the dark side
of a city, throw away the guide books and start self-exploration. When you walk around the city you discover what guide books seldom
share. I have been always interested in graffiti and during my visit to East
Berlin I joined a paid tour to explore graffiti and learn about squatters. When
I was wandering along the streets of Shinjuku in Tokyo, I asked myself could this
dirt-free and beggar-free country have homeless and graffiti. And during my explorative
walk from Shinjuku to Shibuya, I discovered the underworld that wasn’t describe
in any of the guide books. The underpass was filled with graffiti and had a few
homeless people. Had I gone with guidebooks, I would have missed a rare sight in this city.
Speak to a local: Most guidebooks and
websites often exaggerate on what customs must be observed, traditions to be
followed, tourist traps to be avoided and sometimes they forget to keep their material up-to-date. When we finished our dinner at Milan Natraj restaurant at Shibuya
and as we got ready about to pay our bill, we realized that tipping at restaurants is
considered rude and insulting. A few days later when we were at Tennoji Shrine at
Osaka a notice at the entrance in local language warned us against playing their latest craze
(Pokeman) at the temple. Though none of us played Pokeman at Tennoji, it is always safe to
learn the customs and traditions with a local. While we all want to be a courteous
and polite traveler, our actions can offend people inadvertently.
Disconnect from reality: To get enjoy
your vacation to the fullest and get the most out of your trip you need to
disconnect yourself from reality. Disable office emails on devices, uninstall
Face Book, and stop reading newspapers from back home. As you are away you will
neither be able to help nor participate and sometimes what you read can make you
feel miserable.
A friend of mine on the trip was pre-occupied
the day American Election results were out. He was constantly on his mobile
checking the status and ended up feeling unhappy about Trump’s triumph. On the same
day rest of India was crying and queuing up outside banks with demonization announcement. I had no idea of the pain and two weeks later when I landed at the
Airport I felt life was as usual with no disruption. It is good idea to stay disconnected
from reality and re-connect when you are back from vacation.
Sumimasen: Travel to me is very much an intellectual and internal journey as it is fun. Not sure if you would ever want to travel with me after reading this blog, but remember to make your trips fun and memorable.
Get ready for the next one on Tokyo...from guide books to beyond guide books.
Arigatou Gozaimasu!